No? Good on them for barring mental illness as a sole reason.
I live with Persistent Depressive Disorder and it’s admittedly been frustrating seeing people essentially telling people like myself that we should do the thing we’re unhealthily telling ourselves to do anyways.
It literally comes off as people trying to tell me I’m lesser than and should kill myself, but with the veneer of continuing to look progressive.
There’s a guy in our town with no arms or legs. Gets around on a skateboard. Shot himself in the woods during winter but was found and given medical attention. But not before he lost all 4 limbs to frostbite. I’ve never spoken to him. Seems to have a pretty positive disposition given his circumstances.
Also have a bro whose gf slit her wrists in the tub. She survived. Hella trauma all around. Still on the waiting list for surgery to fix her hands years later.
Had a total karen of a neighbour once…Hard not to be callous cuz she was genuinely unpleasant to interact with but found out from my roommate that several years back she came home and found her son had hung himself in the closet at like 17. Who knows if she was nicer back then but clearly permafucked her mentally. She didn’t even move out. She kept living there.
Dying peacefully via MAID is certainly less traumatic to everyone else.
If our gun laws here were like those in the states, I truly would not be here right now.
The same would be of MAID if it was supplied for those with mental illnesses.
It is insane to me that people are just casually blowing this off as if it means nothing. You have no room to regret a permanent decision, and no hope to hold out on.
If my attempts were successful I would have never found myself in this spot where yes, things are still rough, but I can at least say it’s better. I’d have never predicted where things would have gone ten years ago when I was still depressed and feeling suicidal then, by giving people the option to do this, you rob them of the potential for a better life forever.
You’re presenting assisted suicide as if it’s just a “willy nilly” decision. People don’t “just” go to a physician and stick a needle in their arm. It’s a long process that involves careful evaluation.
Going “I didn’t kill myself and I’m happier for it” doesn’t make you the spokesperson of thousands of other people who are still here, suffering, and wishing they weren’t here anymore. You aren’t in their bodies. You aren’t them. They should be able to decide for themselves and if that means suicide, they should be able to do it with dignity, not by jumping in front of a car and messing up multiple lives in the process, or running amok and getting shot by a cop, or jumping from a building and traumatising those around them.
You shouldn’t get to make that choice. They should. That’s the discussion here.
Part of the evaluation is determining whether someone is terminally ill. You are misrepresenting what MAID is by presenting it as a valid choice for someone who has a treatable mental illness.
That is not what I’m presenting at all. Suicide is the the greatest freedom a single person has. That does not mean somebody else has to participate in that act. If somebody requests that help, the process should determine whether the person can be helped before granting that request.
You’re twisting the debate into something it’s not about. This isn’t a “let’s get rid of all the mentally undesirables” act.
Or, and hear me out here, instead of giving the government a cop out to say “your well-being is not our problem, have fun killing yourself”, we have them do their jobs of governing and providing people with basic living standards and human dignity.
If they didn’t suspend this and went ahead with this, what’s preventing them from basically saying “it is what it is, if you can’t function in the society we made inaccessible, here’s your way out, not our job to coddle you”?
Disabled and mentally ill people killing themselves to suit society’s needs will become the norm when it should be the opposite. This is basically systemic eugenics.
I agree with you: we do not do enough for our citizens. We should be doing way more. Where I disagree with you is preventing those who genuinely want to leave this world from doing so with dignity.
“Let’s not change the system as it stands, lets just get rid of minorities and people facing minority issues, and the system fixes itself!”
Idk man, that sounds eerily similar to fascism. Just because it’s sugar-coated as being an “option” (which benefits them because they can no longer be held accountable for their poor decisions) doesn’t make it any better.
I highly doubt any of them are telling you to off yourself (unless you’ve pissed them off for putting words in their mouth like this).
I’ve spent decades of my life in a depressive cloud & wish I hadn’t been forced to by other control freaks telling me they enjoy life, so I can to if I just try hard enough - as if I haven’t. They aren’t stuck with my brain, and have no clue what it’s like. I feel like I’m being used as cheap labor because I’m forced to make profit for other people just to keep my life from getting worse. Which is also why I haven’t offed myself as my luck would cause the attempt to fail (as it once did - “fortunately” to no permanent ill effect), and also make my existence more unbearable.
Fuck Off with your obviously conservative control freak bullshit.
Yeah because living in Alberta is immediately equal to being Conservative, can’t live here and be otherwise because everyone knows we’re a hivemind. Can’t be a progressive and think that the mentally ill and disabled have a right to live with dignity, you have to think black and white and think they either deserve to live and wallow in the status quo, or should kill themselves. Weird how I’m being called a Conservative for being against the same thought process Conservatives have.
Control Freak
Don’t fight me on the point of saying people with mental illnesses and disabilities should have the right to live with dignity. Tell a person living with a long term mental illness to “fuck off” because their opinion doesn’t matter in a discussion about the right to live with dignity unless it’s the “right” opinion, which weirdly is the same line of thinking as Conservatives who think the value of your life is either making profit for others, or of no value at all.
Genuinely what is your problem? I give my experience of having to view these conversations second-hand about what people truly think of people with conditions such as mine, and am immediately told to “fuck off”.
Just goes to show a lot of people don’t care nearly as much as they claim to and that people like us are seen as disposable and lesser than, and instead of fighting that point, you decide to propagate it and insult me without due reason.
because living in Alberta is immediately equal to being Conservative
How TF would I have known that? You didn’t mention it in the prior comment. Kinda telling that you went there.
Genuinely what is your problem?
I could ask the same of you. You’re the one deciding for other people what’s right for them - much like conservatives, so that answers the rest of your diatribe.
People go to people’s profiles to look for dirt on them, I mention being from Alberta on my profile, so I just assumed that you saw my profile, saw that, and jumped to the word “Conservative”.
If that’s not something you did, sorry I got it wrong, but my overall point still stands here.
Also next time you have a suicidal friend, by your own logic, you shouldn’t console them because telling them what they should and shouldn’t do is Conservative logic.
Cool. So the “right” thing for people like me with mental illnesses to do is to kill ourselves, or have the “right” to decide to do it when we’re of unsound mind.
Being against the death sentence doesn’t mean “let all killers free!”, just like being for assisted suicide regardless of mental illness or not isn’t “kill all the people with shrinks”.
We already have cases of veterans being suggested MAID for minor issues. People with mental illnesses, especially the “bad ones” already have a lot of hoops to jump through to be taken seriously because of systemic issues in the medical system.
You’re essentially letting the people who make those issues prevalent win in allowing this. A lot of these issues are also the result of traumatic situations where they know the worst of people and nothing else.
If I was given MAID as an option ten years ago, I would have taken it because I grew up around severe abuse and betrayal, and only knew people for the worst of what they could be and treated kindness and generosity as something to immediately be suspicious of regardless of the situation. A lot of the times these are disordered behaviours where the second you get a diagnosis for something like borderline personality disorder, people, even many of the physicians supposedly caring for you, assume the worst of you.
What prevents a physician from saying “narcissistic personality disorder? Oppositional defiant disorder? Let me just take the opportunity to suggest this real quick and make things better for all of us”
No? Good on them for barring mental illness as a sole reason.
I live with Persistent Depressive Disorder and it’s admittedly been frustrating seeing people essentially telling people like myself that we should do the thing we’re unhealthily telling ourselves to do anyways.
It literally comes off as people trying to tell me I’m lesser than and should kill myself, but with the veneer of continuing to look progressive.
I have my own struggles.
I have attempted twice on my own.
I don’t currently have a desire to.
But removing a dignified and personally chosen means of exiting leaves only the other, more messy ways.
Personally, i believe this option should be available to everyone for any reason.
There’s a guy in our town with no arms or legs. Gets around on a skateboard. Shot himself in the woods during winter but was found and given medical attention. But not before he lost all 4 limbs to frostbite. I’ve never spoken to him. Seems to have a pretty positive disposition given his circumstances.
Also have a bro whose gf slit her wrists in the tub. She survived. Hella trauma all around. Still on the waiting list for surgery to fix her hands years later.
Had a total karen of a neighbour once…Hard not to be callous cuz she was genuinely unpleasant to interact with but found out from my roommate that several years back she came home and found her son had hung himself in the closet at like 17. Who knows if she was nicer back then but clearly permafucked her mentally. She didn’t even move out. She kept living there.
Dying peacefully via MAID is certainly less traumatic to everyone else.
If our gun laws here were like those in the states, I truly would not be here right now.
The same would be of MAID if it was supplied for those with mental illnesses.
It is insane to me that people are just casually blowing this off as if it means nothing. You have no room to regret a permanent decision, and no hope to hold out on.
If my attempts were successful I would have never found myself in this spot where yes, things are still rough, but I can at least say it’s better. I’d have never predicted where things would have gone ten years ago when I was still depressed and feeling suicidal then, by giving people the option to do this, you rob them of the potential for a better life forever.
You’re presenting assisted suicide as if it’s just a “willy nilly” decision. People don’t “just” go to a physician and stick a needle in their arm. It’s a long process that involves careful evaluation.
Going “I didn’t kill myself and I’m happier for it” doesn’t make you the spokesperson of thousands of other people who are still here, suffering, and wishing they weren’t here anymore. You aren’t in their bodies. You aren’t them. They should be able to decide for themselves and if that means suicide, they should be able to do it with dignity, not by jumping in front of a car and messing up multiple lives in the process, or running amok and getting shot by a cop, or jumping from a building and traumatising those around them.
You shouldn’t get to make that choice. They should. That’s the discussion here.
Part of the evaluation is determining whether someone is terminally ill. You are misrepresenting what MAID is by presenting it as a valid choice for someone who has a treatable mental illness.
That is not what I’m presenting at all. Suicide is the the greatest freedom a single person has. That does not mean somebody else has to participate in that act. If somebody requests that help, the process should determine whether the person can be helped before granting that request.
You’re twisting the debate into something it’s not about. This isn’t a “let’s get rid of all the mentally undesirables” act.
Or, and hear me out here, instead of giving the government a cop out to say “your well-being is not our problem, have fun killing yourself”, we have them do their jobs of governing and providing people with basic living standards and human dignity.
If they didn’t suspend this and went ahead with this, what’s preventing them from basically saying “it is what it is, if you can’t function in the society we made inaccessible, here’s your way out, not our job to coddle you”?
Disabled and mentally ill people killing themselves to suit society’s needs will become the norm when it should be the opposite. This is basically systemic eugenics.
I agree with you: we do not do enough for our citizens. We should be doing way more. Where I disagree with you is preventing those who genuinely want to leave this world from doing so with dignity.
This isn’t a “fuck the ill, kill 'em”.
Theyre not yelling at you to go out the door by leaving it open.
Theyre shutting the door on others from being able to choose.
Sound like a typical conservative. Only your choice matters. :/
“Let’s not change the system as it stands, lets just get rid of minorities and people facing minority issues, and the system fixes itself!”
Idk man, that sounds eerily similar to fascism. Just because it’s sugar-coated as being an “option” (which benefits them because they can no longer be held accountable for their poor decisions) doesn’t make it any better.
I highly doubt any of them are telling you to off yourself (unless you’ve pissed them off for putting words in their mouth like this).
I’ve spent decades of my life in a depressive cloud & wish I hadn’t been forced to by other control freaks telling me they enjoy life, so I can to if I just try hard enough - as if I haven’t. They aren’t stuck with my brain, and have no clue what it’s like. I feel like I’m being used as cheap labor because I’m forced to make profit for other people just to keep my life from getting worse. Which is also why I haven’t offed myself as my luck would cause the attempt to fail (as it once did - “fortunately” to no permanent ill effect), and also make my existence more unbearable.
Fuck Off with your obviously conservative control freak bullshit.
Yeah because living in Alberta is immediately equal to being Conservative, can’t live here and be otherwise because everyone knows we’re a hivemind. Can’t be a progressive and think that the mentally ill and disabled have a right to live with dignity, you have to think black and white and think they either deserve to live and wallow in the status quo, or should kill themselves. Weird how I’m being called a Conservative for being against the same thought process Conservatives have.
Don’t fight me on the point of saying people with mental illnesses and disabilities should have the right to live with dignity. Tell a person living with a long term mental illness to “fuck off” because their opinion doesn’t matter in a discussion about the right to live with dignity unless it’s the “right” opinion, which weirdly is the same line of thinking as Conservatives who think the value of your life is either making profit for others, or of no value at all.
Genuinely what is your problem? I give my experience of having to view these conversations second-hand about what people truly think of people with conditions such as mine, and am immediately told to “fuck off”.
Just goes to show a lot of people don’t care nearly as much as they claim to and that people like us are seen as disposable and lesser than, and instead of fighting that point, you decide to propagate it and insult me without due reason.
How TF would I have known that? You didn’t mention it in the prior comment. Kinda telling that you went there.
I could ask the same of you. You’re the one deciding for other people what’s right for them - much like conservatives, so that answers the rest of your diatribe.
I’ve got to get back to work, so I’m done here.
People go to people’s profiles to look for dirt on them, I mention being from Alberta on my profile, so I just assumed that you saw my profile, saw that, and jumped to the word “Conservative”.
If that’s not something you did, sorry I got it wrong, but my overall point still stands here.
Also next time you have a suicidal friend, by your own logic, you shouldn’t console them because telling them what they should and shouldn’t do is Conservative logic.
Agreed
Thank you for your comments on this post, it echos many of my own thoughts on the situation.
“as a mom, I’m against child-protection”
You can be mentally ill and still wrong. Just because you’re affected doesn’t mean you’re right.
Cool. So the “right” thing for people like me with mental illnesses to do is to kill ourselves, or have the “right” to decide to do it when we’re of unsound mind.
Do tell me how this isn’t basically eugenics?
Nice strawman.
Being against the death sentence doesn’t mean “let all killers free!”, just like being for assisted suicide regardless of mental illness or not isn’t “kill all the people with shrinks”.
We already have cases of veterans being suggested MAID for minor issues. People with mental illnesses, especially the “bad ones” already have a lot of hoops to jump through to be taken seriously because of systemic issues in the medical system.
You’re essentially letting the people who make those issues prevalent win in allowing this. A lot of these issues are also the result of traumatic situations where they know the worst of people and nothing else.
If I was given MAID as an option ten years ago, I would have taken it because I grew up around severe abuse and betrayal, and only knew people for the worst of what they could be and treated kindness and generosity as something to immediately be suspicious of regardless of the situation. A lot of the times these are disordered behaviours where the second you get a diagnosis for something like borderline personality disorder, people, even many of the physicians supposedly caring for you, assume the worst of you.
What prevents a physician from saying “narcissistic personality disorder? Oppositional defiant disorder? Let me just take the opportunity to suggest this real quick and make things better for all of us”