Parents are humans with their own flaws and backstories. They’ve had (presumably) 20 years of the worlds bullshit flung at them before you entered the picture.

This sort of sentiment is fine to say parent to parent but parent to child it is a massive cop out.

“I had to put up with this bullshit, so you do to” is terrible parent.

It’s not acceptable for a parent to forward the world’s bullshit onto their child.

In their world, racism heals all wounds.

She was detained, not arrested.

If she has been arrested she would have had more rights.

I’m sure you have plenty of experience with the later but none with the former.