Honestly I’m not really sure what self-hosting is! I’m gonna do some reading and check out these sites, thanks for the info.

Honestly I had no idea what Lemmy was until a couple days ago. Really I chose reddit cause I already used it, it had a big userbase in which to attract a crowd from etc.

I want to get off reddit too. That’s why I came here to ask the question, I figured people here might be more knowledgeable and could point me in the right direction.