I understand you think it’s wrong, but that’s because you’re looking at this through a different lens.
Here’s what i take from it:
I don’t like seeing people behave this way in these circumstances; i really don’t understand it. Lets talk about what you people feel in those same circumstances.
In casual communicative contexts, phrasing something as a question doesn’t necessarily mean it’s seeking an answer or at least not one that solves a problem. So, this can’t be a pointless discussion, because it isn’t a discussion at all, and certainly not an academic one. It’s people sharing experiences, just a conversation. it’s great you want more rigor, but asking for it here as if it were obvious misses the point: this wasn’t a context that demanded rigor from the start.


I didn’t see it irl, only on video. It was a freaking hen. Two crows were ‘laughing’ at her, so she lunged at one, grabbed its tongue with her beak and ripped it right out. Felt like I’d just watched a snuff film.