

I mean… I’ll be the one to say it: he’s not gonna know.
Do what you want and need to in order to maintain your sanity. Placate him with a white lie - and it is a white lie - to make him feel better, if you want to. But maintaining your boundaries and avoiding people you find utterly caustic isn’t “childish”. In fact, I’d call it a consummately adult behavior.



I’ve always been partial to triples myself, in terms of exhaust note