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19 days agoYesss, would recommend
GreatWhiteBuffalo41
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Cake day: June 11th, 2023
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Being safe in my marriage wasn’t the same as being happy. We didn’t fight or argue, we didn’t hate each other or even dislike each other. We didn’t throw things at each other and scream at each other. After my childhood, I thought this was a happy healthy relationship. Turns out, we’re great friends but we aren’t in love. Now that I’ve discovered what happy, healthy AND in love is like, my mind is blown.
I never understood the comments from my friends that I didn’t seem happy. I thought I was…
I mean some of us hate grass so much we started a huge reddit community about it that made it’s way too lemmy.
It definitely takes time and that’s ok.
I thought that for a long time of my life. Turns out, all of my childhood my feelings, my likes and my dislikes were all invalidated constantly by everyone around me. Which lead me to have no idea who I was or what I wanted.
Not saying that’s the same case for you but, might be time to do some inner work.
As someone who has a lot of trauma and is going through something similar with a new partner, it’s so freeing just having someone get me.