I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

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    16 minutes ago

    This feels like the early days of Reddit. Smaller communities and a greater degree of authenticity.

    Just be respectful of the rules and other users. I’ve encountered a few people just looking to start shit, but way less frequently than on what I experienced on Reddit.

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    I’d say most folks at Lemmy are actively trying to grow the communities and the Community and so are genuinely welcoming and helpful.

    I’d ask you to bring your friends and family. This might be controversial because Lemmy tends to attract amazingly talented tech geniuses — but others should be welcomed here as well.

    I’m here to watch the corporate owned hegemonic control of all social media crumble— so I say we grow the Fediverse a great deal. Of course it’s not big enough to take the whole world but perhaps slow and regular growth will be met with the kind of independent commitment needed.

    Anyway: WELCOME. Look. I wasn’t afraid of all caps. We’ll see how that goes.

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    My best advice is that if it seems inactive, that means you should subscribe to a bunch of stuff and switch to hot, top 6 hour and scaled. Active is the default and seems the least active.

    The comments in this thread will give you a great idea on how most people act around here. Hate the idea and not the user and you should be fine.

    Your “also plz be kind :D” comment tells me that you’re going to go through a bit of withdrawal on the hate and drama. It’s great here even even though we have a few trolls and bots.

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    Average user age is slightly more older here.

    The three most common groups are .world(liberals), .ml(socialists), and .blahaj(uwu)

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    It’s pretty much the same but on Reddit it’s ok to be combative and rude with people as long as public opinion approves. Also most of the posts are bots so you aren’t actually being rude to a person there most times.

    Please don’t do that here. There are way less bots here so please remember you are speaking to actual humans.

    Also political discourse is mostly ok here. Same rules apply with rudeness though. On Reddit you will get quarantined or shadow banned quickly with anything politically charged.

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      Oh If I tell you… You can 100% be banned because you said you don’t agree with north korea. NORTH KOREA. 100% true

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      What if someone doubles down on being an absolute tool, can I be rude about dismantling their personality then?

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        Seriously, do you have to promise when you sign up that you’ll post some variation of this same tedious comment? You all do it compulsively.

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        I’m a .ml because it was the second most popular instance when I joined, and I refuse to be bullied by other people tribalism to change to a different instance.

        (Although that /s… if you tried to joke with me, then I’m sorry, I was/am too tired to understand it)

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          Honestly I’ve found the effects are more personal. I like interacting with the sh mods more; they’re a good combo of decent morals but also playful irreverence. They don’t get on me for honest jokes, but they’re also very willing to be like nah buddy it’s time to log off for a few days when they need to. (Hubs prefers the Twitter format if anybody knows a masto instance with similar vibes)

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    Well here if you disagree with someone do not engage just insult their beliefs and type ‘tankie’…wait you’re on .world right?

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      stop calling me racist and engage with me!

      Same energy. If you’re getting called a tankie maybe stop simping for authoritarian regimes.

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        Unless your politics are to the right of Joe Biden, you’re going to get called a tankie.

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          I’ve been here a while, but I might need some help here. Everyone left of Biden is a tankie? Am I understanding you correctly?

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            Well, ultimately tankie just means “person too far to the left of me”, so for some liberals, that does indeed mean everyone to the left of Biden

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              Are you a tankie because you are to the left of Joe biden or because you idealise the soviet union and the ccp?

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    Me too! I have been browsing for a month or two and Reddit finally had enough of my “violent rhetoric”. This is like my second post.

    So what I am gathering is that here I CAN say that I believe that the only solution to capitalism is a revolution so violent and thorough that Mao would be uncomfortable?

    Or nah?

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      Not only can you say it, you can get temperate responses and arguments on the subject and not the person. Sure, we have to deal with some absolutists like on .mil, but after a few weeks of blocking the bad actors, this is a really refreshing environment.

      Edit: and to OP on .ml, that wasn’t against you. Be sure to search around for areas that interest you, it can be sparse but there are some real gems here.

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    Welcome! Lemmy is like Reddit was in its infancy.

    Don’t be a jerk and you’ll be fine. :)

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    It’s fairly strafight forward, i just try and follow these two rules.

    1. Don’t be a cunt
    2. If in doubt, refer to Rule 1.
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    By ratio, there are way more communists than on Reddit. There are three major groups, anarchists, Marxist-Leninists, and liberals, and each instance tends to have more of one or maybe 2 than the others. Getting a feel for instance culture goes a long way.

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        Marxism and anarchism are the most comprehensive umbrellas in the socialist side, and there are very few non-Marxist-Leninist Marxists on Lemmy in my experience. Don’t really know what you mean by “socialist” that isn’t already covered.

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          Afaik “Liberals” refers to the lib-right, and that conservatives misuse it to refer to the lib-left

          Capitalists who think the corporations should be free to screw us over without the government stopping them

          Correct me if im wrong

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            As cowbell said, liberalism covers any ideology that seeks to maintain capitalism, whether by letting the corporations be free to screw you over, or reinforcing capitalism with a welfare state while actual power remains with the capitalist class.